Romantic Tips
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What can you satisfy the romantic side of a relationship? There are
lots of little things you can do in your moments together to enhance romance in
a relationship. Check out our tips below for some things to try. Taking
time out to explore these things and discover new ones can enhance excitement
and anticipation in spending time together. For the purpose of less confusion we
will refer to things in the context or her or she but these techniques work
equally well for both.
What techniques can you use to intensify and enhance the expectation and
pleasure to make him/her feel love and desire? Well there are many. Some are
obvious, like paying compliments about her hair, her eyes, the way she looks or
smells, or compliments on any aspect that she is good at. Just be sure, when you
do act and say these things, that you mean it. If she perceives that you are
giving frivolous compliments then the effect may not turn out as you may hope.
Now to the less obvious things you can do which I will describe one at a time
with as much detail as I can.
Romantic Tip #1 - The eyes
You can look into someone’s eyes and tell them they are pretty, but to make it
effective you have to look deeply into her eyes as if you are trying to read her
mind or look into her soul. Find the real beauty hidden behind the eyes and
compliment those attributes. For example, when you look into her eyes, you
should see the obvious: that they are pretty, you like the color, etc. However,
you should also see the inner beauty and the kindness. The expressions of the
eyes as she is looking back into yours can tell you her state of mind, her
sensitivity, her willingness and her desires even if she tries to hide them.
Comment on the things you see but always in a positive way. If you perceive
sadness make a comment like, “your beautiful eyes look so sad, those pretty eyes
should never experience anything other than happiness and love. What can I do to
bring joy back to those eyes and smile to those lips?” The perception that you
are looking beyond the obvious can put you on the path to winning her heart.
Again, always be honest. A perception of dishonesty (i.e. just another line)
will turn her off and she will not trust you. trust is the most important thing
to gaining and keeping a relationship healthy.
Romantic Tip #2 - The non-sexual, sensual touch
Here is another little exercise that can enhance a romantic moment. Don't laugh
or dismiss it unless you have tried it. Both of you get comfortable facing each
other either sitting or standing. Hold your hands out in front of you at about
shoulder height, your palms facing your partner. Look deeply into your partner’s
eyes for a few moments without saying anything. Then have her close her eyes.
Very gently take you hands with your fingers spread wide and softly touch her
fingers ever so lightly. Run your fingers in no particular or predictable
pattern up, down and around her fingers, palms and wrists paying careful
attention to not let her know exactly where you will touch her. Important! Do
not touch her anywhere else. Watch her closely as you continue this and you will
see how to proceed. If you are doing it right she should utterly relax and you
will notice her breathing becoming erratic and her head swoon. Again only very
light touches and never let her know or guess where you will touch her next.
Romantic Tip #3 - Sensual nerve points
One of the most relaxing things you can do to put her at ease is to touch
special places where the nerves are most sensitive. Note I am in no way
referring to touching sexually. This would be a mistake. First I will point out
a few sensitive nerve points but it will be up to you to experiment and look up
exact locations. Remember these are nerve points which can cause great pleasure
when stimulated properly but also can cause pain if too much pressure is
applied. Remember also that the surface of the skin has a lot of nerve endings
so be gentle. It is also important that you and your partner trust each other to
not only act appropriately but to have no intent to cause pain or discomfort.
The first nerve point is located from the big toe between the second and third
toe about a quarter inch down from the point where the skin connects to the next
toe or as some might refer to the web of the toes. Use your fingers on top and
bottom here to stimulate the nerve.
The next nerve to stimulate is
located on the side of the ankle just slightly to the back and down. You may
have to experiment here as it is hard to describe the exact location with out a
drawing or picture.
Another one is on the top of the foot just below where
the bend of the foot starts and slightly to the left (her left) about one half
inch.
Again it only takes a little experimentation to find them by taking the
tip of your finger and applying slight pressure and watching her eyes.
Let's begin.
You should both be dressed comfortable and she should be wearing
shorts because this exercise will require touching of the legs, ankle's, and
feet. Only if you are completely comfortable with each other should you ever
touch her more than six inches above the knee. If you do she may take it as
sexual instead of sensual and may not allow you to continue or trust you.
First sit in a chair or some other place like couch or bed. If you are not at a
point of intimacy in your relationship then do not try to get her to relax on a
bed. Instead opt for chairs facing each other. Also this exercise will require
touching in a very sensual way, so she must be comfortable with you.
Start by
sitting together facing each other and have her relax. To Start, Look deeply
into her eyes. Do not look away. Let her look into your eyes as well. You will
find that, that will make her relax and you should both be able to see and feel
some of the emotions and feelings each of you have. Remember what I said above
in tip #1 about how if you really look into her eyes you will begin to see and
feel her state of mind and emotions. This is Important so make note of it.
Now, let her sit back and put her feet in your lap. Start by gently massaging
her feet with your thumbs kneading her arch and ball of foot and gently applying
slightly circular motions to the top and bottom of the feet where the toes and
the ball of the foot meet. Remember to watch her eyes and you will see exactly
what she likes and dislikes. Now continue this gentle massage to the ankles and
calves of her legs applying pressure proportional to her response. When you feel
she has relaxed, have her take three deep breaths, exhaling slowly and instruct
her to close her eyes and not open them. Tell her in a soft gentle voice to
relax. Now take your hands with your fingers spread and gently touch her with
alternating fingers. Touch her feet and ankles gently dragging your fingers for
a few inches at a time in no particular pattern and without her knowing where
you will touch her next. Do not just stay in one spot no matter how she
responds. Move from her ankles to her knees with one hand without dragging your
finger there. Just touch her in one place and then another. Use the other hand
to do the same thing at the same time but in different places and different
patterns. Think of your fingers as a feather. (A feather, by the way,
works great too!) As you are doing this watch her face and you will see from her
head movement and her expressions what she likes and where the most sensitive
areas are. Be sure to include the entire leg from knee to feet in your
movements, including the back of the leg and knee. Just before you finish, stop
touching her and gently blow cool air over her legs, and if you already express
love for her, Have her look into your eyes for a moment and softly tell her now.
Romantic Tip #4 - Written expressions
Almost all women love to hear their name spoken in a romantic moment or written
in a poem or letter. Since poetry is something that most women like when they
know it was written for them you should give it a try. There are a lot of poems
on this site that may give you inspiration and ideas. When you try to write a
poem or letter to her/ him, the most important thing is for you to be honest
about your feelings and express and accentuate the qualities in her you find
most appealing. Such as her eyes, her voice, her smile, the way she walks or
sounds when she first awakens in the morning. What ever it is that you find
attractive about her, let her know it and always show your appreciation for her
good qualities. She may have excellent penmanship, she may toss her hair in some
sexy way, or it may just be how she looks at you. What ever it is that attracts
you to her let her know it. Do not be afraid to show your feelings. Most women
and men love it when you are not afraid to express yourself emotionally.
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